{"id":8395,"date":"2012-05-25T13:50:10","date_gmt":"2012-05-25T11:50:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/?p=8395"},"modified":"2012-05-25T13:56:27","modified_gmt":"2012-05-25T11:56:27","slug":"twelve-year-anniversary-of-the-dress","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/archives\/8395","title":{"rendered":"Twelve Year Anniversary of the Dress"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>On May 12th my husband and I celebrated our 12 year wedding anniversary.\u00a0 It\u2019s still hard to believe we\u2019ve been together so long as I don\u2019t think either of us feel <em>old<\/em> enough to have been married for 12 years. Wasn\u2019t it just a few years ago that we WERE 12?<\/p>\n<p>A few days before we were clearing out our storage room when we came across my wedding dress.\u00a0 Well, I use the term \u201cwedding dress\u201d very loosely.\u00a0 It wasn\u2019t really what I imagine a wedding dress to be, but it was all I could find to fit me at the time.\u00a0 It was more of a \u201c*Sigh* It will have to do\u201d dress. It wasn\u2019t my dream dress and I did not feel pretty.\u00a0 I hated the way it felt, I hated the way it looked and truth be told, I was quite unhappy in it.\u00a0 I was, however, extremely happy to be marrying <a href=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/archives\/tag\/xander\" target=\"_blank\">Xander<\/a>, so I chose to concentrate on that.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/wedding.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"display: inline;\" title=\"wedding\" src=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/wedding_thumb.jpg\" alt=\"wedding\" width=\"600\" height=\"519\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>As you can see from my selective crop back in the day, I couldn\u2019t even stand full length photos of me in the dress.\u00a0 We got married before the day of digital cameras so this was scanned from the original photo years ago.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll have to take my word on it.<\/p>\n<p>So, on our anniversary we decided that I should try the dress on and see just how much I have changed since that day 12 years ago.\u00a0 I wasn\u2019t quite expecting the results I got\u2026<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/weddress.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 10px; display: inline;\" title=\"weddress\" src=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/weddress_thumb.jpg\" alt=\"weddress\" width=\"600\" height=\"1235\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/weddress2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 10px; display: inline;\" title=\"weddress2\" src=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/weddress2_thumb.jpg\" alt=\"weddress2\" width=\"600\" height=\"755\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/weddress3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 10px; display: inline;\" title=\"weddress3\" src=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/weddress3_thumb.jpg\" alt=\"weddress3\" width=\"600\" height=\"1226\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/weddress4.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 10px; display: inline;\" title=\"weddress4\" src=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/weddress4_thumb.jpg\" alt=\"weddress4\" width=\"600\" height=\"1095\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/weddress5.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 0px; display: inline;\" title=\"weddress5\" src=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/weddress5_thumb.jpg\" alt=\"weddress5\" width=\"600\" height=\"1173\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Looking at it now, it looks like something you\u2019d wear to bed.\u00a0 It still makes me sad that instead of a beautiful wedding dress like all the girls dream of, that I wore something like this\u2026 <em>BECAUSE IT FIT<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>I am so glad that my days of wearing things I don\u2019t even particular like like, simply because I manage to find them in my size, are coming to an end.\u00a0 I hope I never have to live that way again and am going to do everything in my power to see that it never happens because it feels horrible.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s so weird though, I look at the dress in the photos and can clearly see that it\u2019s huge on me, yet I feel MUCH bigger now than I did when I wore it 12 years ago.\u00a0 When people say that it takes your head a while to catch up with what goes on in your body, they aren\u2019t kidding.\u00a0 It\u2019s so bizarre, seriously!<\/p>\n<p>I think I\u2019ll save it and try it on again next year!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On May 12th my husband and I celebrated our 12 year wedding anniversary.\u00a0 It\u2019s still hard to believe we\u2019ve been together so long as I don\u2019t think either of us feel old enough to have been married for 12 years. Wasn\u2019t it just a few years ago that we WERE 12? A few days before &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8397,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,19],"tags":[619,617,162,349,877,624,52],"class_list":["post-8395","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-memory-lane","category-weightloss","tag-clothes","tag-gastric-bypass","tag-marriage","tag-weight-loss","tag-weightloss","tag-wls","tag-xander"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8395","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8395"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8395\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8401,"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8395\/revisions\/8401"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8397"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8395"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8395"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8395"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}