{"id":5996,"date":"2011-01-24T21:59:59","date_gmt":"2011-01-24T19:59:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/?p=5996"},"modified":"2011-01-24T22:08:48","modified_gmt":"2011-01-24T20:08:48","slug":"30-days-of-truth-day-4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/archives\/5996","title":{"rendered":"30 Days of Truth: Day 4"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/01\/Day4.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-top: 0px; border: 0px;\" title=\"Day4\" src=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/01\/Day4_thumb.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Day4\" width=\"595\" height=\"89\" \/><br \/>\n<\/a>I have to admit, I\u2019m having trouble with this one.\u00a0 I\u2019d say it\u2019s because nobody has ever done anything mean or unkind to me, but that\u2019s not true.\u00a0 I know it\u2019s not because I\u2019m such a forgiving person because that\u2019s not true either, I can hold a grudge like you wouldn\u2019t believe if someone does something horrible enough.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d say I need to forgive this ex-boyfriend or that former friend for something they\u2019ve done but in all honesty either too much time has passed since, I\u2019ve long since forgiven them or I just don\u2019t care anymore.\u00a0 There is nobody who stands out in my mind as having done something so heinous to me that they\u2019d deserve and entire post about it.<\/p>\n<p>I guess it\u2019s a good thing really, if you think about it.\u00a0 I have no grudges serious enough or hurtful enough to have anything to write about for this. I\u2019m happy that I\u2019m living without that in my life.<\/p>\n<p>There are things <em>some<\/em> things I should probably forgive the people in my life for, but I just can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Like my <a href=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/archives\/tag\/xander\" target=\"_blank\">husband<\/a> for not letting me warm my toes up between his thighs when we get in bed and making fun of me when I can&#8217;t do math in my head, or <a href=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/archives\/tag\/penny\" target=\"_blank\">Penny<\/a> for calling me Shirefolk because I\u2019m short, or my <a href=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/archives\/tag\/mom\" target=\"_blank\">mother<\/a> for the time my dad had a massive heart attack and she called me and said he had a \u2018slight discomfort\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>I should probably forgive my friend <a href=\"http:\/\/www.breigh.com\/wordpress\/archives\/tag\/paule\" target=\"_blank\">Paule<\/a> for being so incredibly fit and having so much energy, which makes me look bad bad by comparison.<\/p>\n<p>It probably also wouldn\u2019t hurt to forgive <a href=\"http:\/\/homecookingwithsonya.blogspot.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Sonya<\/a> for always posting photos of delicious looking food on her blog when I\u2019m trying to diet, or my friend <a href=\"http:\/\/gailatlarge.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Gail<\/a> for taking way better photos than I do.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, it looks like I have a lot of forgiveness to work on\u2026 but they better not hold their breath!\u00a0 These are all very serious offenses.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have to admit, I\u2019m having trouble with this one.\u00a0 I\u2019d say it\u2019s because nobody has ever done anything mean or unkind to me, but that\u2019s not true.\u00a0 I know it\u2019s not because I\u2019m such a forgiving person because that\u2019s not true either, I can hold a grudge like you wouldn\u2019t believe if someone does &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5997,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[553,35,414,551,173,554,52],"class_list":["post-5996","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-randoms","tag-30-days-of-truth","tag-friends","tag-gail","tag-paule","tag-penny","tag-sonya","tag-xander"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5996","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5996"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5996\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6000,"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5996\/revisions\/6000"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5997"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5996"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5996"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.canadutch.nl\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5996"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}